I ruined my hair how do I fix it?

I went from black to blonde using stripper, bleaches and a lot of dyes all within 2 days, my hair was fine handled it all very well until I got bored of the blonde 2 weeks later and dyed it purple now it's like elastic when it's wet, whenI'm trying to brush it I have to be incredibly gentle so I don't pull it out and when it's dry it's very frizzy, looks like it's been singed. I know I've used 1 too many dyes with the purple and should've waited longer after all the bleach etc I'd put on but I'm impatient, please don't advise me to go to a hairdresser I work a lot and don't get chance to unless I book time off at work even then I have to give 2 weeks notice. I just want advice on products to use, my friend told me to condition it a lot, I have been doing everyday it is helping but very slowly